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发表于 2011-12-9 13:50:37 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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) X9 x  D; H. _9 D) n" J$ j! TWhen I was superintendent of schools ( 地方教育官员) in Palo Alto, California, Polly Tyner, the president of our board of trustees ( 理事会,大学董事会), wrote a letter that was printed in the Palo Alto Times. Polly's son, Jim, had great difficulty in school. He was classified as educationally handicapped and required a great deal of patience on the part of his parents and teachers. But Jim was a happy kid with a great smile that lit up the room. His parents acknowledged his academic difficulties, but always tried to help him see his strengths so that he could walk with pride. Shortly after Jim finished high school, he was killed in a motorcycle accident. After his death, his mother submitted this letter to the newspaper. * R% h; V+ R) _/ i- L

+ t4 q( E- d1 ?3 o, V* VToday we buried our 20-year-old son. He was killed instantly in a motorcycle accident on Friday night. How I wish I had known when I talked to him last that it would be the last time. If I had only known I would have said, "Jim, I love you and I'm so very proud of you." ) _" g% H, N* A( R# `8 S
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I would have taken the time to count the many blessings he brought to the lives of the many who loved him. I would have taken time to appreciate his beautiful smile, the sound of his laughter, his genuine love of people. 8 z8 r7 w) i9 c- g

) h9 P. F* _) L$ MWhen you put all the good attributes on the scale and you try to balance all the irritating traits such as the radio which was always too loud, the haircut that wasn't to our liking, the dirty socks under the bed, etc., the irritations don't amount to much. ! y8 a# g" G! N7 Z  J& E
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I won't get another chance to tell my son all I would have wanted him to hear, but, other parents, you do have a chance. Tell your young people what you would want them to hear if you knew it would be your last conversation. The last time I talked to Jim was the day he died. He called me to say, "Hi, Mom! I just called to say I love you. Got to go to work. Bye." He gave me something to treasure forever. ( B# b* t0 D) X

6 a' v5 H; J. [8 q, n1 r$ CIf there is any purpose at all to Jim's death, maybe it is to make others appreciate more of life and to have people, especially families, take the time to let each other know just how much we care.
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( N+ N  S/ Q8 x& O% X% X. P6 {" RYou may never have another chance. Do it today!
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 PS:吉姆死了。他的死让人们明白了要更加感激生活,告诉人们(尤其是家人之间)应努力让彼此知道你是多么爱他/她、在乎他/她。今天就去做吧,因为可能以后你就不会再有这样的机会了。
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发表于 2011-12-9 13:57:56 | 显示全部楼层
kan budong yingwen na.........
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发表于 2011-12-9 14:03:39 | 显示全部楼层
西子血一 发表于 2011-12-9 13:57 8 y7 z% \) o& `0 z0 r9 H( ]
kan budong yingwen na.........

: h5 N0 S, W( X  R6 onide yingwen henhao!
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 楼主| 发表于 2011-12-9 14:04:57 | 显示全部楼层
西子血一 发表于 2011-12-9 13:57
2 f' @" p: s: a% xkan budong yingwen na.........
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板凳好有爱啊。。。
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发表于 2011-12-9 14:05:06 | 显示全部楼层
珍惜每一个值得去珍惜的人并让他感受到你的关怀,你会更加幸福和快乐
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 楼主| 发表于 2011-12-9 14:05:52 | 显示全部楼层
洛丹伦的夏天 发表于 2011-12-9 14:03
7 ?" ?  o3 j$ h) V; ]$ Pnide yingwen henhao!

$ v% [( D' x: {$ z9 [1 B% e沙发好有爱啊
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发表于 2011-12-9 14:06:43 | 显示全部楼层
洛丹伦的夏天 发表于 2011-12-9 14:03 ! v  r/ G& @  O% Z" |& \4 R
nide yingwen henhao!
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haha.....谢谢。。。。。。。。。。* ]# J3 B8 m* u6 j3 z

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发表于 2011-12-9 14:07:20 | 显示全部楼层
烟花妹妹 发表于 2011-12-9 14:05   H# k5 s; j; q" _: p* l8 Z
沙发好有爱啊
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嘿嘿。。。。。。。。。。。。
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8 l  m* [9 |9 ^7 ?) E啦啦啦啦啦啦啦啦。。。。配上那娱乐圈音乐
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发表于 2011-12-9 14:08:19 | 显示全部楼层
西子血一 发表于 2011-12-9 14:07
) r& X# q1 N0 l3 ]4 t+ m7 j+ _  n嘿嘿。。。。。。。。。。。。; x: c7 q0 m# t3 x4 \
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啦啦啦啦啦啦啦啦。。。。配上那娱乐圈音乐

  r$ f# b9 i! u4 a7 f要是配蓝精灵的音乐更好!
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发表于 2011-12-9 14:09:07 | 显示全部楼层
洛丹伦的夏天 发表于 2011-12-9 14:08 ; n3 b* V" X+ m2 Y3 V; Y1 }
要是配蓝精灵的音乐更好!

' U! x- G  M7 D. q* C, }" Z我刚刚从蓝精灵音乐走出来。。别了。。。。。
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已经几个月了
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